Febloguary Day 17 (I think I like this...)

(Photo from Aunt Cheryl and Uncle Trey's Ranch House in South Texas)

Well, the sun has set on Feblogaury.  If February wasn't the runt month, I may have squeezed out those last few blogs to reach my goal of 20.  I'm feeling really good about 17 though!  I am excited that I now have 17 posts that I did not have before, words that convey my heart and reflect my life actually written out.  I have had a blast writing y'all, and I am so grateful for the encouragement I have received from those who are reading.  Just the fact that you take the time to read is a gift, much less the kind words you have shared that spur me on!  I will say though, in the words of my Poppie , "My tired hurts!"  I have got to figure out a way to do this without the midnight bedtime.  Yes, that means I am going to continue writing often, but probably not quite so frequently.  I still have plenty to talk about, so  I'm back to stay blog world!  For now though, I say, "Nighty night!"

Febloguary Day 16 (Thirty-Onederful!)

After my last post, I want to thank you for all of the kind messages I have received , especially those of you who are praying with me that 31 will be a good year for me!  A friend mentioned in a birthday message that she knew someone who referred to "31" as "thirty-onederful", and I LOVE that!

I must say that my birthday this year rocked!  My precious friend Abby came in town Friday morning and stayed through the weekend. My girls spent the weekend with Grammy and Pop, so I just got to enjoy my hubby and hang out with Abby lots!  Friday night the three of us had the most interesting experience at Cheddar's.  I'm not sure if our server was on something or off his meds, but it really felt like we were on Candid Camera and we got a lot of laughs out of our unique dining experience.  Saturday provided incredible weather!  We milked it.  After a baby shower for my friend Andrea that morning, Abby and I headed to West 7th to enjoy the day.  We began at the Food Park which was so much fun!  If you haven't been, you should really check it out this spring!  We ate something called Texas Trash, and it was delightful.  We lingered there long after we had finished eating and just chatted about life like we did so many afternoons in 2012 while our little ladies played together in the front yard.  We left there just a bit "hipper" than when we arrived,  and on the order of Justin, we embarked on the task of finding me a new pair of jeans.  Our first stop was Marshall's, and after trying on several pair, I found a pair of Express jeans that fit well and didn't have any obvious design flaws, score!  From there we went to Sweet Sammies.  If you have never been,  you MUST GO!  This is my third birthday in a row to include this treat in my celebrations.  It's amazing.  Again, we sat outside and talked, and talked, and talked some more, so much that we outlasted our 90 minute parking garage validation.  We were informed we would have to spend $20 to get out of the garage, so we ventured into Aveda where we browsed and they kindly added time to our validation.:)  By the time we got home Justin was back from selling a goat, and we all just hung out and talked.  Abby was tired and headed to "The Stepter Suites" for bed. (Rebecca really does hospitality well!)   Justin and I headed to On The Border for $1 Margarita Day, only to be greeted by a 1.5 hour wait time!  We walked down to Chili's where the wait was still almost an hour at 9:30 at night.  Despite our better judgement, we ended up at Macaroni Grill where we played a few games of hangman and laughed a lot.  Then we devoured pasta and were almost immediately miserable, as our gluten tolerance has diminished greatly in the past year!  Regardless, a date with my man was so good and much needed!

Sunday morning, I slept in. No alarm.  No little loves needing my assistance.  No agenda.  Happy Birthday to ME!  While Justin took care of the goats, I happily headed to the Donut shop to find my perfect sprinkle donut, a birthday tradition.  They were out, but the sweet lady made me one right there on the spot!:)  I decided I wanted a Cherry Sprite too, because I was pretending to be 13 instead of 31.  I went to Sonic, as I thought they had 99cent drinks until 11:00, but they had recently changed it to 10:00, and it was 10:15.  I am cheap, so I left and went across the street to 7-eleven for my 99cent Shriley Temple Big Gulp.  I got home and took a long bath with my essential oil bath salts and a Sally Clarkson book in hand.  When I got out, I was greeted by my 13th "Happy Birthday Angela" mix from Justin on my phone; he loves me well.  I leisurely got ready and even took the time to take the 2 week old nail polish off of my fingernails, now that's a luxury!  Abby and Rebecca picked me up for lunch, and we met Taber at Panera.  While it was slightly  very windy, we sat outside and enjoyed the sunshine and good conversation.  After hearing about me not having a cake for my 30th, Abby was determined to NOT let that happen and brought the cutest little cake for us to share and celebrate with!  This time together was so sweet and I felt so loved.

From there Abby and I met up with Justin and headed to Arlington to meet my girls, Grammy and Pop, and Daddy for an early dinner at Fish City Grill.   Oh how I love my little ladies!  After a weekend without them, I needed those hugs and snuggles!  Dinner was delicious, and guess what?!  I wisely a week before had told Justin about how bummed I was to not have a cake last year.  I knew it wasn't his fault, but I also knew he had to know that was my desire, or I would end up disappointed once again.  He turned cake duty over to his mom and the girls, and I had a delicious cake made by my little loves!  THANK YOU!  When I first entered marriage there was some strange rule in my head that if I asked for something from Justin and then he provided it, it wasn't as valuable as if he just knew what I needed and gave it to me.  While I suppose that happens from time to time, I have learned that it is so healthy to just ASK!  He LOVES to serve me and DESIRES to provide for my wants and needs; however, I have to communicate what those wants and needs are.  Life is so much better when we aren't living on assumptions!  From there I hugged Abby and sent her off to the airport, thankful for a friend who will use her airline miles to come in for just a few days to make me feel super loved! (Abby and fam get their own post soon!)

On our way home there was a beautiful display of God's splendor in the sky.  I just couldn't get enough of it!  What a sweet reminder of a new year and the promise that His love never fails!
When we arrived home, I had the BEST birthday post ever on Facebook, if you didn't see it, you should definitely go check it out!!  My dear friend Keri created an International Happy Birthday video for me, starring all of her friends at the training where her family currently is.  I watched it multiple times.  I cried every time.  These friends really are precious.

After that, my crew put their finishing touches on my gifts, and presented me with sweet treasures.  Photos and Frames and Handmade Art are pretty much the BEST!  I also got a new cute pair of running shoes, which I guess means I need to run more at 31 than I did at 30 (hmm... maybe 10 miles total?!).  That right there will surely make this year "thirty-onderful"!  The night was capped off by lots of crazy attempts of selfies with the Bigs.  Oh, how I adore my crew.  It is such a blessing to be Mommy of Team Bassett; I am well loved.

All in all, 31 is definitely off to a better start than 30.  I am already seeing the Lord restoring brokenness, using pain to bring about beauty, and encouraging the Body of Christ globally through our story.  I have great hope that this will be an exciting year for me as God opens new doors and I run with perseverance and in obedience this race He has marked out for me.

Febloguary Day 15 (How was 30?)

(note: I began this post on the 23rd, my birthday.  However, it was pretty hard to write, so I had to step away from it for a couple of days.)

It's official!  I am 31 years old today!  I WELCOME this new year with OPEN ARMS, because to be honest, 30 kinda stunk.  That is NOT to say that there weren't amazing things that happened in the past 12 months, but when my friend, Abby, asked me last night, "So how was 30?" I had to reply honestly.

This time last year, I was standing in my kitchen bawling.  I had received texts, Facebook messages, and phone calls.  My family had treated me like a queen in the week leading up to my birthday.  We had gone to dinner with extended family.  I had received gifts of many kinds.  But my heart hurt.  My life was in a period of transition.  Everything seemed to be changing, and my expectations of what life should look like at 30 were turned on their head.  The solid group of friends that I had been walking with for the past 6 years had changed drastically as our family walked in obedience to worship with another community on the weekends, then we had sent our dear friends, the Raneys, to Oregon in December, and we had sent our precious neighbors, the Mullins Family, to Kentucky in December as well.  On what I anticipated to be a fun day of celebration, I actually mourned the absence of these sweet friends.  I also was hit with the reality that our reservations at dinner were for one less than I had thought.  Momma had reached the point where she was not able to meet us for dinner anymore.  She would not be taking me birthday shopping either, and I didn't get a good morning wake up call with her singing "Happy Birthday" to me.  Lastly, my thirtieth birthday had come and gone without a cake, as that was typically the task of Momma.  It was a really crummy start to thirty, and missing friends and missing Momma were often the themes of my life as a 30 year old.

Highs and Lows of 30:
(some of these will be their own posts soon!)
-No cake and lots of tears.
-First Camping Trip as Team Bassett- COLD, but super fun!
-First Seder Meal  
-Called to Adopt
-Celebrating Charlotte at the Mother's Milk Bank
-Smile from Momma on Mother's Day
-First Goat Show 
-Bassett Girls' Beach Trip 
-Got my Nose Pierced
-Date Nights with the Campbells
-8 States in 8 Days!  Journey to Louisville and back to see the Mullins crew
-Alumni Council for Phi Lamb
-Painting with Momma
-Austin Trip and the BEST Donut of my Life
-Cooked my First Whole Chicken
-Second year to Tutor Classical Conversations
-Hosted my First Slumber Party for Lizzie's 7th birthday
-Began Truthful Tuesday Posts
-My First Visit to the State Fair
-Second Year to Help with the Sparrow Conference
-New Mexico Trip
-Hot Air Balloon Festival
-Mosier Family Visits
-Began using Young Living
-Raneys Came to Visit
-Motor on Washing Machine Quit Working
-Gifted a Washing Machine From a Friend's Uncle Getting Rid of His Old One
-Fuzzy's Life Group
-Meeting with Dr. about the future for Momma
-Last Days by Momma's side despite Icy roads to get there
-Momma's last breath
-Transmission Went Out on the Car
-Momma's Memorial Service
-Sending the Campbells to Training
-First Goat Show at the FW Stock Show for our Family
-Began the Jesus Project
-Snow for Charlotte's Birthday Party
-Finished 1,000 Gifts
-Got My Car Back from the Shop for Valentine's Day
-First Trip to the Perot Museum
-Abby Came to CELEBRATE

By God's kindness, as I type this list and look at all of these photos, I see that there really were A LOT of great things in my life over the past 12 months, but most of them were accompanied by an undercurrent of loss.  There was a lot of me wishing I could share these events or experiences with Momma or friends who were absent.  There was a lot of me fighting to believe truth as the enemy whispered otherwise.  There was a lot of me fighting for truth when the enemy BLATANTLY stood against me.  The past year has been an all out war, but guess what?!  My God has been faithful!  Nothing formed against me has stood.  I have clung to His promises.  The God of the Universe has loved me well and revealed more of His goodness toward me in the darkness of this year.  I praise Him more because of this year.  Maybe 30 wasn't so bad after all.

James 1:2-4
Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.

Here are a few songs that have been extra special to me this year.

Whom Shall I Fear

Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus

Nothing is Wasted

Though You Slay Me

Oceans