Showing posts with label Elizabeth Grace. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Elizabeth Grace. Show all posts

Monday, February 17, 2014

Febloguary Day 11 (Happy Heaven Day to You, Charlotte Jane)

Today was the day that we said goodbye to our precious baby girl after just a week of life.  It is crazy that it has been four years.  We were so very thankful for the AMAZING weather today!  Last Monday's FREEZING temperatures cut our cemetery time short, but today we made up for it!  Our family was able to enjoy our time together and worship God.  We are so thankful for the peaceful place we are able to go and remember our sweet girl!  Some of my favorite sunsets have been spotted from the cemetery.  
  These 2 know this place well.
God gave us a gorgeous backdrop tonight!
 Fun with BUBBLES!
 Liv exploring.
 Races are a tradition for Team Bassett :)
 Daddy joined the race!
 We brought the petals off our waning tulips to spread around at the cemetery.
Making sure the petals are just right. 
My lovely Lizzie! (No matter what I try, I cannot get this pic upright!)
 My Bright Light, Lainie K!
Liv happily sang "Happy Heaven Day to you, Charlotte Jane!" She totally doesn't get it, but she knows pictures of Charlotte and joins us in all of our celebrations with great fervor!
 
 Daddy's Girls :)
 I may or may not have promised ice cream to Liv to get this shot with my little ladies.
 Lainie got to take Mommy and Daddy's pic.
 I'm glad we asked her to take 2!  I love this man so much!  Together we have been brought through many fires and come out molded and shaped more into the image of Jesus.  We are thankful.  Thank you Charlotte Jane for your brave fight and for all the ways you continue to draw me nearer to Jesus.
These words were sent to me in a text message today from a dear friend. I just had to write them down.  For one, I LOVE writing Charlotte's name any time I get a chance, and secondly, this is AMAZING TRUTH!  I couldn't help but do a little happy dance when I received this message.  A day of glory, no doubt!

Thursday, February 13, 2014

Febloguary Day 7 (What? You Homeschool?)



Here we go... This is such a fun topic for me!  How in the world did YOU end up homeschooling? I mean, your Mom has a school named after her, you and Justin are both products of public schools, you have always been passionate about the public school... What happened?



About two years ago, the reality hit us that our sweet Lizzie Grace should be going into kindergarten in the fall.  This was all well and good, except that she was already reading Charlotte's Web and The Dictionary for fun.  She also carried herself in a manner that was incredibly mature. Also, Lizzie has a September birthday, which creates an opportunity for her to be nearly a year older than some students in her same grade.  None of this ultimately would have been a huge problem.  Lizzie is very compliant, and she would have happily stated that "A says a" and "learned" to count to 100 while she already was practicing multiplication with Justin each night before bed.  However, God used this scenario to cause us to consider our children's education in prayer rather than just sending them off to school, because that's what you are supposed to do. In this season of prayer and asking LOTS of questions, God made it abundantly clear that we were called to keep Lizzie home, at least for the following year.  Once we knew this for sure, we shared it with Lizzie.  She was not opposed to it, but she did say, "When will I see my friends? How will I meet new people?"  These were great questions and ones for which we too wanted answers.  I had heard of the program Classical Conversations through some friends in College Station, and upon doing some research, the model seemed to be a good fit for our family.  We sought out a local community and visited that February, and Lizzie and I both LOVED it!  Because the program was gaining so much popularity locally, there were plans to begin a new group, which we jumped into with both feet.  















That summer I attended training and became a tutor for Lizzie's class.  I could never have imagined how quickly this community of other homeschool families would become much like my own family.  It has been such a huge gift for us!  There are mommas in our group who have been homeschooling for 20+ years and some who just started this year.  The variety is awesome, and the willingness of those who are farther ahead to willingly pour out knowledge and encouragement on us newbies has been so sweet.  Just as our kiddos need socialization and opportunities to engage with their peers, so do we as moms, and CC not only allows for that but provides an environment that encourages it.  I also LOVE that everyone comes from a wide range of church affiliations, but at the end of the day, we all LOVE Jesus and want our children to love Him too!  This is refreshing when there can be so much dissension among those who follow Jesus.  We are going to two different Valentine's Parties tomorrow with CC friends.  Don't tell me my kids aren't socialized! :)



As for the curriculum we use, Classical Conversations covers a Timeline of the World that is learned each year, History (Ancient, World, and US), Math, Science, Latin Grammar, English Grammar and Geography.  Each week, there is a set of memory work that is taught in class (we meet once a week on Tuesdays), and then we study more in depth on the topics at home. Watching the Olympics has been so much fun, because we recently studied the history of Russia as well as The Caucasus Mountains and the Black Sea in Geography.  In addition to this, every week in class, each student gets up in front of their peers and gives an oral presentation.  This is definitely one of my favorite things that CC includes.  This practice in the early years of sharing a show and tell, retelling a Bible story, or telling about your family increases confidence, as it is a weekly occurrence.  This skill translates well into a teenager who is comfortable standing in front of his or her peers defending his or her beliefs and into an adult who can clearly articulate vision and define Truth in the workplace or as he or she leads in the home or in the greater Body of Christ.  The peers also practice what it means to be a good audience-- to listen well and ask good questions, which are also invaluable skills as an adult.  CC also includes an element of Art that is taught weekly, ranging from Drawing skills,  music theory by playing the tin whistle, art techniques based on great artists, and an appreciation for music through the orchestra.    This is a ton of fun and an area where I have learned a great deal alongside my girls.  Lastly, there is an emphasis on the children learning the Scientific Method, so we weekly participate in science experiments and have a blast learning how things work!



It is our hope that through Classical Conversations our girls will be developed into life long learners.  The goal of CC is less on the material and more on learning how to learn.  This has been a paradigm shift for us, but such a great one.  With the skills that we are all acquiring, we can learn pretty much anything that we want to by walking through the stages of learning.  If you are interested in the Classical Model of education, there is a plethora of information available, but a good starting place is Dorothy Sayers, The Lost Tools of Learning.  Miss Sayers was a contemporary of C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien, and she first presented this essay at Oxford in 1947.  I highly recommend you take the time to read it!










If you are curious what our days look like at home, here is a sample schedule from the fall.  We are not slaves to the schedule, but it does help keep us on track.  We have recently adopted the Pomodoro Technique where we take 25 minutes to stay really focused and work hard and then take a 5 minute break where we dance, read a fun story or some poetry, sing, or do something active.  Using this approach, we knock out school pretty early in the day.  We typically read a chapter or two of a novel over lunch, which sometimes turns into 3 or 4 or 5...  During the afternoon the girls rotate through 30 minutes of Reading, Room, and Computer time which also gives me a bit of time to regroup and refresh.  This time apart from one another is a gift, and Lizzie and Lainie are much more excited to come back together and play happily after a little break!





By far the biggest challenge to our school day is sweet Liv.  Last year, she still took two naps, so we were able to cram school into those segments, and everything was peachy.  This year, however, this is not our reality.  I can't tell you how crazy I was feeling when we began school back in August!  I added Lainie's kindergarten into the mix which worked beautifully, but I had not accounted for school with an almost 2 year old. YIKES!  I quickly realized that I could not teach the girls their math with Liv's "help", so I gave Lizzie and Lainie both a block of "Liv Play Time" where they get to pick things for her to do and pretty much babysit while I have uninterrupted time with the other one to teach Math.  This has worked pretty well, although sometimes Liv just wants Mommy, and we all have to have grace for one another as we navigate the day.  Thankfully something happened over Christmas break called, "Liv can play alone and not be destructive!" It is glorious, and we are all thankful!  It is also remarkable how much this little love is picking up on as she hears and sees school going on around her.  She's one smart cookie!





With only two students, there is the opportunity to do a lot of fun things!  The girls cook a lot, do a lot of art projects, they have taken knitting lessons, they do a lot of domestic things around the house like laundry and dishes, they get to spend extra time with extended family, they care for the goats, field trips are frequent, and life lessons are always an opportunity to point them to Jesus.  Really, when it all comes down to it, that is our goal.  Our hope for Lizzie, Lainie, and Liv is that they would know God and make Him known.  For this season, learning in our home is where that is best happening.  The unity we have as a family through homeschooling has been awesome; our conversations are rich, and we are all growing in wisdom and knowledge together. We are taking our girls' education a year at a time and constantly seeking the Lord as to what He has for our family.  Oh, and everyone is always smiling at Team Bassett Academy... HA! It's a journey with lots of tears from us all, but it's totally worth every single one!  It is a joy and a blessing to be with my girls daily and to be the one who is pouring into their sweet lives.  This is not what I ever imagined for my family; it is far greater than anything I could ask or imagine.

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Febloguary Day 3 (Lizzie Grace)

 This girl.  I cannot adequately express the delight she is.  God has created her to be mature far beyond her years, compassionate, discerning, kind, generous, a servant, joyful, hopeful, sensitive, smart, tender, a good friend, passionate, a bookworm, and absolutely beautiful.

Over the past couple of years, we have asked a great deal from this seven year old, and in every situation she has responded with grace, as she has trusted us to lead her.  This has been amazing to watch.  Lizzie, more than her sisters, had a deep relationship with Momma.  At the age of two Lizzie was already engaging in intriguing conversations with her Nana; they just "clicked" and both really enjoyed being together.  Therefore, Momma's decline and now absence have impacted Lizzie uniquely.  The love that my sweet girl poured out over her Nana until the very end was phenomenal.  She would sit next to her and just hold her hand and tell her how beautiful she was and tell her stories, and just be with her with absolutely no response, except for an occasional smile that I believe was reserved just for Nana's Lizzie Girl.  Elizabeth Grace loves well.  She is able to lavish love without expectation of receiving anything in return.   I'm learning from her. This is clearly from the Lord, and I stand in awe as I watch Him working in her life.

Lizzie has also proven her trust as we began our homeschool journey.  While all of her friends were thrilled to be starting kindergarten, we dropped the bomb that she would be starting first grade, and at home.  We listened to her desire for community, and we wanted that as well.  Our family has found a great fit for us in Classical Conversations, and Lizzie thrives in this atmosphere.  It is beautiful to see her soaking up knowledge, weekly standing before her peers and giving an oral presentation, growing in her ability to communicate with both her peers as well as those younger and older, applying the information she is learning in various situations such as literature and current events, and all around LOVING to learn!
Reading is Lizzie's passion.  It really doesn't matter what the subject matter is, if it is printed on paper, she devours it.  The past couple of days her selections have included a Boxcar Children, The Little Princess (Mommy, why do they speak English in India? me: Well, England once took over India, and-  oh, right, British Queen Victoria ruled over India.), the Bible, a National Geographic joke book, a book about Austria, the entire Rodeo Program, Tuesdays at the Caste (our freshly completed read aloud that she is now allowed to read solo), an American Girl Mystery, and whatever else was available to her, depending on her location in the house or car.  It is delightful to watch her get sucked into a story.  It is dreadful to pull her out! Books have been taken away at times to remind her of the rest of the world that is spinning around her.  However, the gift of reading with ease and loving every moment is precious.  We do our best to fan the flame of her love for reading.

Lizzie has enjoyed taking dance this year!  Last season she began with ballet and did a super job.  She has now transitioned into jazz and is having a blast with it as well.  She is a hard worker, and it is great to see her applying herself in something that challenges her mind and body.







When we pluck a book from her hand, Lizzie can be found riding her bike, taking care of her goats, experimenting with her Rainbow Loom, taking pictures,drawing and creating, making funny videos with her sisters, and listening to the Frozen soundtrack.  She also is quick to help out with Liv, pitch in where there is a need around the house, and to serve our family as she is able.  It is very rare that you will hear Lizzie complain, as she delights to put others above herself.
 I am blessed to be Lizzie's mommy.  She loves me well.  She trusts me.  She is a gift!